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Life Relationship and reality

  • 1. Once upon a time I met a man who told me that: *telling the truth and making someone cry, is better than telling a lie and making someone smile and happy*.

    2. He said to me *your true friends are those who will never avoid you just because they have met new friends.*

    3. As he kept on speaking to me, he said *if some people do not appreciate and value my presence,* I should *work hard to make them value and appreciate my absence.*

    4. He said I must not be angry with anyone who is quiet on me because there must be a reason why they are quiet, and that I will get to know the reason later.

    5. He told me it is always better to *be a blessing to others at all times than to be a burden at any time*.

    6. He said I must learn to *forgive others not because they deserve it* but because *I deserve the peace that comes with forgiveness*.

    7. I must know that *everyone deserves a second chance and many more chances if they ask for forgiveness*, but I must *not lose my guard over their intentions*.

    8. I must not only talk to people in my free time, but I *must free my time to talk to people*.

    9. I must know that *the truth may hurt for a little while, but a lie will hurt for a long time*.

    10. I must learn to *value and respect people who tell me the Truth no matter how painful the truth is.*

    11. I must *make my decisions when I am in the right mood*, not when I am angry, likewise I *must not make promises when I am excited with high emotions.*

    12. I must know that *some people are like candles that burn themselves to give light to others*. I should not have *regrets if I happen to be one of such candles*.

    13. I must learn to be a *_caring_ _friend_* because *it is a thousand times better than a careless lover*.

    14. I should value and protect my relationships of many years of investments, because *they are like a book that takes years to write but, can get burnt only within few seconds*.

    15. He specifically said this repeatedly that: If I have a problem with someone, I should *go tell the person and not go tell the world*.

    16. He said to me that I should know that nobody is too busy, *it is just a matter of their priorities within a day.*

    17. He said to me that people can trust you when *you are consistent with what you say and what you do*.

    18. He said with a low voice, only God can be totally trusted. *Trust God 100%*.

    19. He then said: no matter what, I *must not forget those who helped and stood by me in my time of trials and during my difficult times*.

    20. I must always remember those who turned their backs on me in my difficult times of trials. *Not for vengeance, but for the lesson of life*.

    21. I must be careful with those who put me into difficult times but *I must never hate them. It is a lesson of life.*

    22. He said again: I must be grateful at all times to God for this life and for living. *It is a privilege, and not a right*.

    23. As he was leaving me, he said, always remember *how temporary this world is,* you must always be conscious of *the reality of eternity with God in heaven or with Satan in hell fire*.

    24. He smiled and left waving me for a long time. *Who must this man be?*

    25. What he told me *may be useful to you,*

    *God bless you more as you meditate upon these words* and, perhaps share with your friends if you wish.